Susan McNicoll’s Online Home

If you’re interested in Canadian history, theatre, true murders, biographies, acting, Jack the Ripper, death, hanging, intrigue, memoirs, historical murders, fibromyalgia, chronic pain and illness, mystery and more, then you have come to the right website. Not only has Susan written about all those things in different books or articles but she has a page devoted to her handsome Maine Coon cat, Jay, including a musical video link. Susan’s lifelong love of words and history has been the main focus of her writing career, which began with five years as a reporter for the Ottawa Journal in the 1970s. Her latest release is The Opening Act: Canadian Theatre History, 1945-1953, a book devoted to professional Canadian theatre prior to the Stratford Festival in 1953.

Maine Coon Jay’s 2017 Christmas

This is my eighth Christmas with mum (see video at the end of this blog). Best years of my life – yes, I know that is my whole life! During that time we have developed a way to tell each other what we are thinking (or in my case usually what I want). In a previous blog I explained my interpretation of what certain words mean to me when mum says them. If you want a refresher here is a link to that blog:

Five Years Together and Counting


It is only fair, then, that I allow mum to say what she thinks when I say certain things. It’s all yours mum.


Thanks little guy. Jay is very communicative and has many mews and sounds that mean different things. Here are just a few of them.

  1. I will start with my favourite. Jay and I have a recliner and spend a lot of time in it. Jay lies asleep down my legs – like this:

Lying on Mum’s Legs


Then sometimes he turns around and crawls up my lap and puts his head on my shoulder with my arm wrapped around him. Then he begins to coo. This is like a purr, only with a pigeon coo sound. He rubs his head into my shoulder while he coos. I know he is telling me that he loves me. I’m a sap. I admit it.

  1. Jay makes very gentle little grunts sometimes when he is asleep and this is followed by a quiet snore which is so sweet. I know he is sleeping soundly and feeling ok. (Jay – I do NOT snore. I merely communicate with mum while asleep).
  2. Meow, meow, meow – high-pitched while running around me in a tight circle. Sounds like musical notes. This is easy. He is super happy and is expecting to eat. Jay loves his dry food. Like dessert for a kid. He likes his wet food too but once he realizes it is time for dry food, he goes a little crazy running around me and meowing. For such a big strong boy he has a very high-pitched meow. (Jay – don’t listen to mum. I have a very deep manly meow)
  3. See 3.) but only one high-pitched meow. Jay gets his dry food in two portions. If I give it to him all at once he eats (inhales) it too fast. He gets the second portion when I turn out the lights. After his first half he constantly comes to the bed and leaps up with his paws on the top of the mattress next to my head (Jay is very tall), gives his one meow into my face and then runs back to his bowl and sits there. He is persistent!


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Out Of The Ashes

On Remembrance Day I have two fathers to thank for their sacrifices in World War II. The man who raised me and the one I called Dad, fought in the Canadian Army. He was wounded twice, once on the last day of the war. Gordon, my birth father, was in the RCAF and piloted a Lancaster Bomber on numerous missions. This is the story of how I found Gordon after 35 years of separation and how his memories of the war surfaced in the aftermath of the terrorist attack on New York City in 2001.

“This is Gordon and, yes, I am your father,” the voice on the other end of the line said in response to my letter in 1988. In one of the many amazing instances of synchronicity in my life, I had, after many years, finally found my birth father.

When I mailed the letter I had no idea what the outcome would be, nor even if it was the right man. Would he even want to meet me? I accepted that he might not want to do so.

Talking to him that day on the phone had seemed so natural and easy. It was as though we had just said goodbye the day before. In reality, I had not seen or spoken to him for 35 years. I had few conscious memories left of the man I last saw when I was four-years-old and, yet, I knew finding him was vital to my future. We talked and laughed for 45 minutes. I remember how excited he was and that I could actually feel the adrenalin running through the phone. A short two weeks later, I was driving down to New York State to meet my birth father.

When Gordon walked towards me in their kitchen and hugged me I knew I had finally come home. Not to a father or the siblings I was soon to meet, but to myself. I felt out of place my whole life because in my soul I had no tether. But I saw myself in Gordon and knew in that moment I had healed a large hole inside. Even if I never saw him again after the visit, I felt at peace, felt complete. Like me, he was supportive, caring, emotionally intuitive, interested in many facets of life and he had a slightly dark sense of humour. On the negative side, we both suffered from depression and had been through medical battles.

The next couple of years were good. We communicated often and he supported me as I finished writing a book that had taken six out of 11 years of my life to write, The Opening Act, Canadian Theatre History 1945-1953. The day I finished it he sent me a card and flowers.

We talked about healing the wounds of the past. He recognized my feelings of abandonment and understood he was responsible for those feelings. Mostly he nurtured me and I tried to help him heal some of his own pain.

I made the decision to move to the other end of Canada, ironically to the province of his birth. He encouraged the move even though he knew it meant we might never see each other again. We never did. Gordon’s withdrawn personality returned and he found his way back into his shell but for a space in time I gave him renewed energy and hope, “gave him back his life” he told me.

It was frustrating, though, to watch Gordon retreat emotionally. I was in Canada and he was in New York and it was hard to hold on to him. (more…)

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Wheels of Love Chapter One

 Chapter One

It was scorching hot that late September day in 1972. Sue and Deb had been travelling for six weeks and having a blast. They’d both worked hard for a year, saving to backpack for four months through England and Europe. Sue, although only 23, had so much responsibility back at home that she was really enjoying the freedom she was experiencing. That freedom was all she wanted from this adventure. Never in a million years was love in the picture.

Arriving at the train station in Barcelona early that morning, the platform was overrun with men. Given what happened in France a couple of weeks before, seeing few other women left Sue a little apprehensive about the day ahead but she quickly put her fears aside. They grabbed an empty carriage but it did not stay that way long as they were soon joined by a young Moroccan boy and a woman from England. The latter was so frail and nervous Sue wondered why she was travelling alone. The 16-year-old boy with the black curly hair and animated gestures made them all smile. In spite of his exuberance, he had an appealing shyness about him. It only took five minutes of sitting in the station before the heat got to them.

“Geez it’s hot. This is September, isn’t it?” Deb asked as she made sure all the windows and the carriage door were wide open.

“Apparently” Sue replied while helping fight one of the creaky old train windows into submission.

However, the open windows brought them little relief. Sue was reaching into her knapsack for a bottle of juice when a young man appeared in the doorway of the carriage. She saw his feet first and then her eyes slowly moved up the rest of his body to a face that made her solar plexus tighten and piercing blue eyes that led her down into the most open soul she had ever encountered. She knew at that instant her life would never be the same again.

“Is seats taken?” the man said.

“No,” Sue said quickly.

The young man must have thought he was asking were the seats empty because with Sue’s response he started to walk away. She sprang to her feet and grabbed his arm.


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